The Misery Of Adoption With No Adult Annulment Process Worldwide

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10th Sept 2020 

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There are many pained adoptees all across Facebook and some "birth mothers" who feel lost without children they gave up or were pressured to give up .

What is clear is the pain revolves and revolves  in various adoptee groups and no solutions come easily from the States in parts of the US or elsewhere in the World of adoption where  kids that grow up cannot as Adults even revoke (Annul) abusive adoptions  they experienced. ....

This identity-falsifying institution Of Adoption remains perversly sacrosanct . No one knows why ..... Is it the 11th Commandment ?  "Thou Shalt Remain Adopted!" ..

This paperwork invention clearly works for some Adoptees but not for others at all .. Some are subject to emotional abuses and narcissistic adopters and sexual abuses after being adopted ..

They cannot exactly take cases for a lack of duty of care can they as kids they have already lost the supreme security of birth family ..?

They might have been able to legally revoke their falsified identity (some feel) if an Annulment Process existed ... California has an Adult Adoption Revocation process but it needs drastic expanding across the US .. The Australians have a process of Annulment named "Discharge" which adoptees have to go to the Supreme Court for ....

How ridiculous it is for seriously unhappy adoptees to have to pay a small fortune for legal fees to de-falsify their own identity incontrovertibly provable nowadays by DNA anyway . Some do not wish to be identified with an identity too that IS NOT THEIRS .. 

Just a few groups picked easily on Facebook have thousands of members .. Some very very unhappy with the imperfect remedies for "selfhood" offered by the Adoption process and it's trapping ways .... Adult Adoptee Adoption Annulment is way overdue as a Human Right . 

The California Adult Adoption Revocation Process is outined here in this very well written US Law review

See Also :  Adult Adoptee Adoption Annulment Global Group .

 

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